If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. Expect that you will do the majority of parenting and attend school functions alone. Signs of Male Attraction: Reading a Man's Body Language. Marriage is meant to be eternal. We have to show them we care. However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. Either it's enough for you - or it's not. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point.
I find it's helpful to focus on the fact that it's the job that demands so much of him, rather than him simply opting out of time spent with us. But God works in mysterious ways. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner.
He knows that is a possibility. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. What's hard for us, is he doesn't understand why I gladly accept extra hours and work and community service projects, which sometimes impinge on the little time we do have to spend together.
No matter that he's married - maybe they can lure him away. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. Want to add to the discussion. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. He does not place the marriage above it. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband.